You Weren’t ‘Too Sensitive: How Childhood Comments About Weight Leave a Lasting Mark
Diet Culture, Disordered Eating, Body Image Karen Lynne Oliver Diet Culture, Disordered Eating, Body Image Karen Lynne Oliver

You Weren’t ‘Too Sensitive: How Childhood Comments About Weight Leave a Lasting Mark

“Are you sure you want seconds?” “You’ve got such a pretty face if only you lost a little weight.” Seemingly harmless comments like these often leave a lasting mark, shaping how we feel about our bodies well into adulthood. This post explores why those words stick and how you can begin to heal from their impact.

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Safety in Shrinking: When Weight Loss Becomes a Coping Strategy
Disordered Eating, Body Image, Mental Health Karen Lynne Oliver Disordered Eating, Body Image, Mental Health Karen Lynne Oliver

Safety in Shrinking: When Weight Loss Becomes a Coping Strategy

When weight loss feels like control or protection, it can quietly become a way to survive trauma. This post explores why shrinking sometimes feels safe, the hidden costs of this coping mechanism, and how to begin finding security in your body without relying on restriction or disappearance.

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How Trauma Shapes Our Relationship with Food and the Body
Disordered Eating, Body Image Karen Lynne Oliver Disordered Eating, Body Image Karen Lynne Oliver

How Trauma Shapes Our Relationship with Food and the Body

Why do food and body image struggles run so deep and feel so hard to change? For many, the answer lies in trauma. In this gentle, psychoeducational post, we explore how trauma responses like dissociation, shame, and control can quietly shape eating behaviours, and why compassion (not willpower!) is key to healing.

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